Sunday, October 31, 2010

Happy Halloween!

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I hope everyone has a frightfully fun day today! I won't be partaking in any festivities because I'm off to a Mumford & Sons concert this evening. I'm just a wee bit excited about it!

Since I don't have a costume or fun decorations to share this year, I'll leave you with a collection of retro photos from my childhood. Halloween was always a spirited and fun holiday in my family, a highlight being the elaborate haunted house my uncle would build in their garage each year.

Looking back at these photos and noting how each costume I'm wearing was painstakingly sewn by my own mother, I'm realizing how much I have to live up to when I have kids of my own. I better get my sewing skills up to par! :)

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What was your favorite childhood costume? Is anyone dressing up this year?

Saturday, October 30, 2010

October Intention Reflections

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Hilarious gravestones found on photo walk around the 'hood.
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At the beginning of the month, I decided to set a mantra to guide and center me throughout October, since I discovered that selecting a Word of The Year wasn't specific enough for me. For October, I chose the word "Explore," and my intention was to remember this word as I visited new places and tried new things.

And how did this work for me? In the most literal sense, I enjoyed exploring all over Savannah and Charleston on vacation a few weeks ago. I've started taking photo walks around my neighborhood again, and have found that, in general, I'm paying much more attention to my surroundings whenever I'm out and about.

I found that the monthly mantra brought an interesting introspective element to situations that I might not have otherwise payed much attention to. I became more conscious of the times when I was brushing up against the edges of my comfort zone. For example, I realized that I use the excuse of not wanting to bother people as a reason to avoid asking for what I want. I didn't overcome this over the course of the month, but having the word "explore" in mind brought attention to the things keeping me from fully exploring and embracing life.

Also, a potential low-point of past month was given a new spin by viewing the situation in the light of my mantra. When a part-time job ended up not working out as expected, I chose to look at it not as a failure, but as a bit of an adventure, as one of those things that gives my life story a bit of color and character... I worked in a punk-rock pastry shop for one day!

All in all, I liked the focus that the mantra brought to my days, and I plan on continuing setting monthly words for at least a few more months.

Friday, October 29, 2010

Foodie Friday : My Food Story

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In honor of October being Vegetarian Awareness Month, I wanted to use this Foodie Friday to share my "food story." I've really enjoyed reading other people's food stories; I find them so interesting. Just like so many parts of life, the way we eat often evolves and transforms. It's a process of evolving tastes, health, and of learning more about where our food comes from.

Obligatory disclaimer: My aim is not to proselytize or suggest that my path is the "right path," or that I've even figured it all out. Far from it-- I'm still evolving. I believe that we make the best choices we can with the information we have available. If anything, I'd only encourage people to become more informed about their food and lifestyle choices, so that they can draw conclusions of their own. [It goes without saying that I don't believe that "ignorance is bliss."]

So onto my story. I love food. I've always had a somewhat discerning palette, turning down kiddie-food favorites like hamburgers and pizza in favor of things like Greek salads and shrimp pad thai. I learned recently that my mom made my baby food from fruits and veggies from a local organic farm-stand (Thanks Mom!), so perhaps the tendency to enjoy good food was ingrained in me early.

But, like the majority of other young adults, I did not have the healthiest eating habits once went off to college and was living on my own. A combination of lack of funds, a stressful schedule, and probably a few-too-many nights out on the town led me to often eat cheap, packaged, crappy food (a sleeve of saltine crackers and some peanuts were my dinner on more than one occasion... and let's not even talk about Ramen).

And it didn't stop with my first job, which was an incredibly stressful position in the advertising industry. The overflowing basket of candy bars and chips in the break room became a reward for making it through the day. Even if I was eating healthier fare most of the day, I'd still treat myself with indulgences through snacks or meals out at restaurants.

During this stressful job, a few things began to happen. I realized that stress was making me sick in body, mind and spirit. I started to think about how to make myself well again--and I quickly saw that it was more than just needing exercise, or just dieting, but rather a holistic approach to the way I live, work, eat, think, sleep, etc, and the interplay between all these things. Also, with a brother with Type I diabetes and a mom with food sensitivities and other health issues, I began to see how the right foods could be healing and balancing. My interest in cooking as a hobby became more of an interest in nourishing myself and my loved ones, putting me back on the path to healthier eating--and it was a great way to de-stress after work!

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My growing interest in food and health combined with the distaste I was feeling for the advertising industry led me to watch several documentaries that really started to shape my current view. Films like The Corporation, Super Size Me, Food, Inc., and Killer At Large were eye-opening and thought-provoking. I was angered by things like corporations' and lobbyists' influence over the USDA and other agencies (and how their influence shapes food policy--for their profit, not our health); how government subsidies for commodities crops have led to the artificially-cheap pricing on highly-processed foods and factory-farmed meat; and the horrific conditions of concentrated animal feeding operations (CAFOs)... Etc, etc, etc. [For further reading, I highly recommend Food Matters by Mark Bittman and Eating Animals by Jonathan Safran Foer as good introductions to the issues, and Food Politics by Marion Nestle for a deeper look.]

With my new knowledge, I knew that I couldn't stick with my old ways. My meat-eating tapered off (except for when I was with family or otherwise not in charge of my food options), and then a year ago--almost to the day--I decided to forgo meat indefinitely. I felt a million times better once I cut out processed foods and then meat and most dairy, replacing them with more greens, beans, vegetables and whole grains. I feel lighter emotionally knowing I am not supporting industries that contribute to many Americans' poor health, do an incredible amount of damage to the environment, and keep animals in abusive conditions for their entire lives.

Since making these holistic lifestyle changes to my body, mind and spirit, I have lost weight, my blood pressure is awesome (the doctor said so!), I haven't gotten sick in more than three years (*knock on wood*), I no longer have digestion/IBS-like issues that I had eating meat and I don't have sinus problems-- when I am able to successfully avoid diary, that is--the occasional bit of cheese still slips in, especially when on vacation! I LOVE that I support local farmers by buying a CSA and shopping our local farmer's market, and I've become much more conscious about supporting local businesses in general. The food I eat is SOUL food whenever possible--Seasonal, Organic, Unrefined, Local. Love that acronym. :)

Now, one little interesting detail-- I definitely don't call myself a vegetarian or a pescatarian (although I *TOTALLY* support those who do). It's partially because I don't like labels, but also because it is A CHOICE I make about the food I eat, not something that I AM. Theoretically, I might eat fish--or possibly meat--if it's sustainably-raised or comes from a small, local, non-factory farm. Personally, I haven't found it productive to use a label because so many people make assumptions about me when they hear those words. And besides, the food I eat is not restricted to pescatarians or vegetarians or vegans. It's real, whole food that is damn delicious and makes you feel great inside and out. And that doesn't need a label! :) (Bryant Terry, author of Vegan Soul Food, has great thoughts on this very topic here.)

If anyone is curious about my diet or has any questions, please let me know. Thanks for letting me be so wordy today :)

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Inspired By : Southern Details


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While in Savannah and Charleston, I became enamored with the intricate iron-work that is found on everything from churches to government buildings to private homes. It's amazing how a little bit of pretty scroll work can make even the shabbiest houses look romantic and dreamy. I'm so inspired by these patterns that they might just show up in one of my invitation designs someday soon :)

Monday, October 25, 2010

Weekend Moments.

Creepers Pumpkin

A delicious dinner with my family at our favorite local restaurant.

Celebrating my parents' new lake house on the same lake where I spent many memorable vacations as a kiddo. Thinking about how completely amazing it is that our future kid(s) will be able to share in this experience.

An almost heart-attack and lots of laughter upon finding a lump moving under our bedsheets a la Tremors (which turned out to be a burrowing kitty).

Catching up on much-needed pillow time after having a restless and sleep-deprived few days. Sleep is vital, people.

Watching my Mizzou Tigers beat Oklahoma for homecoming. Not that I care one stitch about football, but holy hell I love that school. I was so nostalgic and wistful for MU this weekend that I teared up when I heard the fight song.

Feeling somewhat proud for putting my well-being first in a situation that didn't sit well with me.

Walking around the neighborhood, crunching fallen leaves and laughing at spirited Halloween decorations. (A grave stone for Dr. Phil?! Kind of hilarious.)

Pumpkin pancakes with apple butter. {Recipe modified from here.}

Realizing that a steady and consistent schedule is much more important to me than I ever would have thought... and being okay with that.


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Thursday, October 21, 2010

Vacation, All I Ever Wanted

Thanks to all of you who offered your condolences and shared your experiences of losing a furry family member. It's definitely a tough thing to go through, but it's a good reminder to make sure you give lots of snuggles to your pets while they're around. Kitty is getting a lot of loving these days.

Despite the sad news I returned home to, we did have a wonderful time on our vacation. Everything from the people to the buildings to the shops was just as charming as I expected them to be.

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Charleston won me over with it's narrow streets, delicious and rich Southern food, and the waterfront park, where we relaxed in the breeze for a few hours while watching toddlers frolic in the fountains. We explored side-streets where we found art galleries tucked into lush, green side yards that made you feel like you were stepping into a secret garden. We stumbled upon tiny, adorable coffee shops where our lattes came on mismatched dishes in creamy pastel shades.

We didn't do much shopping in Charleston (other than an adorable shop called Indigo); instead we spent our time walking and eating. And then walking and eating some more. There is definitely some delicious food to be had in Charleston, and our stops included Hominy Grill (our favorite of the trip), CRU Cafe (where diners sit in the living room of a traditional single-style Charleston home), Five Loaves Cafe (which had lots of vegetarian options), and The Glass Onion (with locally-sourced sustainable fare, including their wine list).

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And the people in Charleston? Well, it was quite a different from Chicago, where urbanites rush around while wrapped up in their iPods and/or cell phones. We couldn't go anywhere in Charleston without someone asking, "Where you folks from?" or leaning over our restaurant table to check out our meals and proclaiming, "I think I should've gotten the cornbread!" People were so friendly, talkative and sweet; I wanted to hug everyone and somehow steal their Southern accents.

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Savannah had a similar feel to Charleston, yet it was still unique in it's own way. There was a vibrant energy that likely came from the numerous young, hipster, artsy students of the Savannah College of Art and Design. (Although, we could have done without the frat boys running and screaming up and down the hallway of the hotel at 2:30 AM our first night in town.) The shops were unique and the displays were impeccably styled; I haven't had so much fun window shopping in a long time. The streets were much wider than in Charleston and we loved the parks situated every few blocks, surrounded by wispy and drooping trees. It made for such a unique feel to the city.

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After stuffing our faces a little too enthusiastically in Charleston, we stayed away from heavy, low-country fare in Savannah--which definitely meant avoiding Lady & Sons and all things Paula Deen. Instead, we noshed on sushi and Thai for our dinners, and stopped at an adorable cafe for fresh-baked scones in the morning.

It was a delightful trip, and--along with an overnight stay in Hendersonville, North Carolina on the road trip home--I can now check three more states off my life list goal of visiting all 50 states! And we're already dreaming of our next trip... It looks like it could be a quick weekend getaway, when we get thoroughly sick of the Midwestern winter, to visit the Harry Potter theme park in Orlando! The thought of that excites this 27-year-old woman way more than it ever should. :)

{More of my images on Flickr: Savannah and Charleston}

Monday, October 18, 2010

Hello and Goodbye.

Hello, friends! I'm back from down South. Mark and I had a delightful time meandering through cobblestone streets in Charleston, resting in Savannah's parks and cute cafes, and stuffing our faces with gooey mac n cheese and grits. I will share more stories and photos soon, but for now I have to share some sadness.

Arriving home from my trip late on Saturday night, I had buckets of voicemails, emails and blogs to catch up on since I had (mostly) unplugged from technology while we were traveling. It took me well into Sunday to make a dent in it all. One of the last things I did was pop into my secondary email account where I found an email from my mom, describing how our dog, Casey, wasn't doing too well. And then I got an emotional voicemail from my step-dad saying he wasn't sure she'd make it through the weekend.

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Casey had a toe removed due to cancer earlier this year, and the doctors weren't sure that they had gotten it all. I hadn't seen Casey in more than a month, but when I last saw her, she seemed like her usual bouncy self, if only a little slowed down by her increasing age. But while Mark and I were on vacation, Casey took a turn for the worse, the cancer having spread throughout her body and into her lungs. Without going into too many sad details, she couldn't breathe and was clearly suffering, so my parents had to put her down.

The hardest part for me is that I didn't get to say goodbye. I didn't even know what was going on with Casey while it was happening. Mark and I were blissfully unaware of her pain, driving home from a wonderful vacation, even talking about how we were ready to start looking for a dog of our own someday soon. I'm sad and guilty I wasn't there for her and to say my goodbyes.

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But, with a little thought, I think I'm coming to terms with her death. I might not have been able to say goodbye to her, but the memories I have of her--down to the very end--are happy ones. Not images of her sick and struggling to breathe, but happy thoughts of all the years we had with this joyful puppy.

After I had gotten all my tears out, I hugged Mark last night, laughing into his chest and told him all the memories I have of my Casey-dog. How she'd get crazy spells and run in circles around the coffee table and between floors of our split-level house. The way she bounced off the ground like Tigger to see out the front door when someone was visiting, so, so happy to see us. How she would get into everything--bags of chips, plants, Kleenex boxes, toilet paper--and make a royal mess out of the house while we were gone, leaving bits littering the floor like confetti. How she loved my step-dad so much she'd put her face up to the crack of the door the entire duration he was in the bathroom. How her wrinkly forehead was one of the reasons I picked her from her brothers and sisters at the shelter. The way she endlessly circled the couch giving Mark the stink-eye the first time he came over. Chewing on her feet when she was bored. Her love of the dog park, of licking plates clean, of squirrels and of giving kisses (but not hugs. Never much of a hugger, she'd lean away when you'd go to squeeze her around the neck). How she was SO afraid of my cat. The times she'd spin wildly in circles when I'd throw a tennis ball straight up in the air. The way she'd dig and fluff at her dog pillows before plopping down for a nap--it always had to be perfect and sometimes seemed to take 4 or 5 attempts. Her head-tilts when we'd ask her if she wanted to go in the car. Her unconditional love.

These are all the parts I want to remember. Goodbye, Casey-dog.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Farewell, Friends!


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I bid you adieu! I'm off to Charleston and Savannah for the next week to fulfill my fantasies of becoming a Southern belle, so my blog will be on vacation as well. I hope to return with lots of photos and charming stories, and maybe even a bit of a Southern drawl if I'm lucky.

See you on October 18th, y'all!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Playlist : Road Trippin'


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As a key ingredient to my Road Trip Recipe, music can make all the difference on a long car ride. I require just the right mix of tunes, with rockin' songs to keep my energy up and gentler ballads that meld with the scenic country landscapes. And songs that are fun to sing (badly) or car-dance to are all the better. As I mentioned before, I definitely think I'll be playing a lot of Arcade Fire, Mumford & Sons, and Muse on my trip, as well as this Road Trippin' playlist. I've included 18 songs here, but my version has about 55 songs on it. I hope you enjoy this sampler!


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What's your favorite music for long car rides? And don't be ashamed to admit you love to sing Taylor Swift at the top of your lungs... I definitely lost my voice after one road-trip completely due to Kelly Clarkson's "Breakaway" CD. :)

{Music on this playlist: Telekinesis - Coast of Carolina, Arcade Fire - Ready To Start, Two Door Cinema Club - Undercover Martyn, Camera Obscura - Let's Get Out of This Country, The Hold Steady - Sequestered In Memphis, Apostle of Hustle - National Anthem of Nowhere, Fleet Foxes - Mykonos, Surfer Blood - Floating Vibes, The Gaslight Anthem - Old White Lincoln, New Order - 60 Miles an Hour, Best Coast - Boyfriend, The Morning Benders - Excuses, Florence & The Machine - Dog Days are Over, Choir of Young Believers - Action/Reaction, Passion Pit - Moth's Wings, Yeasayer - Madder Red, Phoenix - Love Like a Sunset Pt. 2, and Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros - Home.}


Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Road Trip Recipe

Next week, I am packing my bags, grabbing my camera, and heading off on vacation. My husband is leaving today to drive out to South Carolina. I'll be flying out there in a few days, and he'll pick me up and whisk me off to Charleston and Savannah for a few days of Southern charm (and a probably more than a healthy dose of shrimp 'n grits). Then we have a long ride back through the countryside to Chicago, which I have diligently been preparing for.

Not to toot my own horn, but I do consider myself to be quite the expert on taking road trips. For over two years, my husband and I trekked between states every other weekend to visit each other while we went to separate universities. And let me tell you, it only takes a few hours of staring at nothing more than cornfields to come up with a plan for keeping myself entertained and energized along the way. This upcoming trip will be much more fun because we'll be together for most of it, but the ingredients for a successful road trip are the same nonetheless.

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A properly loaded iPod is key, as it's impossible to find a decent radio station when you are unfamiliar with an area (unless you're lucky enough to have XM radio). Take matters into your own hands and be your own DJ. I'm sure I'll be playing lots of Muse, Gaslight Anthem, Mumford & Sons, and Arcade Fire on this trip. {I'll share a sample of my playlist on Thursday, so tune in then. -- That was pun-tastic!}

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I can recall far too many trips in the car with my father when I was young where he'd play sports radio or conservative-talk radio for hours on end. In fact, it was these trips that turned me off of spoken radio shows for years, until I was old enough to appreciate the pure greatness that is NPR and other publicly-funded stations.

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When it comes to eating in the car, the main issues to consider are how many hands are required to consume the food and the mess factor. Chex Mix, good. Pistachios, not so good. Banana, good. Oranges, not so good. And if you must stop for fast food, veggie burgers/hamburgers are much easier to eat with one hand than, say, a Chipotle burrito or a meatball sub. Believe me, I've tried; you will end up with beans and rice in all sorts of unmentionable places.

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Not much I need to say about this one! Make sure you are as fueled as your car, especially on that last leg of the trip, when you think you can't bear to stare at the seemingly endless road for another second and want to bang your head against the steering wheel. {Image credit: WeHeartIt}

Do tell, what are your must-haves for road trips?

Monday, October 4, 2010

Monthly Mantra : October

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This month, I'm starting a new little exercise, where I dedicate a specific mantra to each month. My hope is that this phrase will act as both a guide and a touch-point for any events or emotions that might rise over the course of a month. Inspired by my blog friend Nicola's weekly "Monday Mantra," I thought that a monthly focus would work out perfectly for me, who tends to need a little more time to put ideas into practice. :)

Like many others in the blog world, I declared a Word of the Year back in January, but I'm learning that--at least for me--picking one focus for 365 days is just a little inflexible. Especially when the most unexpected of events have happened since declaring my Word--job loss, roommates, changing goals. I still love the idea; I'm just adapting it to work for me and my constantly changing circumstances.

For October, in a totally unintended nod towards Christopher Columbus and next week's Columbus Day, I have selected "Explore" as my mantra. I've got a jam-packed month that's brimming with travel plans and crafter meetups and 30 Days of Yoga and more. I'll be heading to places I've never been and taking part in activities I haven't yet tried. As a creature who can sometimes get a little to comfortable in my little nest, I think "Explore" will be the perfect reminder to put on my adventure hat and seek out new experiences, as well as adapt to any challenges that arise. At the end of the month, I'll do a quick recap of the most significant places that my mantra appeared for me.

Perhaps you'd like to join me in setting an intention or mantra for the month? I'd love to hear it in the comments!

Friday, October 1, 2010

Foodie Friday : Gallo Pinto

Hotel Diria, Tamarindo, Costa Rica

Last year, we spent a glorious ten days exploring Costa Rica from east to west coast. While the terrain changed from jungle to mountains to beach as we traveled, the one constant was our breakfast meal (and perhaps the mid-day rainstorm, which coincided perfectly with an afternoon snooze). Our morning meals always consisted of a rice and beans dish called gallo pinto, fried plantains, scrambled eggs, and the freshest fruit you could imagine--probably because it crossed no more than 50 miles to end up on our plates.

Breakfast became one my favorite parts of our trip. Granted, vacation-breakfasts are typically meant to be leisurely affairs, enjoyed while sipping coffee and pouring over the daily paper or a novel. But Costa Rica was different, other-worldly even. Imagine sitting in an open air dining room with a thatched roof, staring at the ebb and flow of clear blue waters, with the haunting bellow of howler monkeys and toucan chirps overhead. Seriously. At one point, a set of punky, mischievous, blue and white birds with spiky hairdos got so close to our table I thought they were going to make off with my banana or perhaps hold me up and steal my wallet. That just doesn't happen in Chicago (unless we're just talking about flagging away pigeons during a rare outdoor meal)!

In an attempt to re-create just a little bit of this tropical magic, my husband and I have tried to make our own version of gallo pinto and fried plantains. And it was pretty darn authentic, if I don't say so myself! Granted, we're lacking the ambient sounds of Costa Rica, so we might have to pick up one of those tropical rain forest soundscape CD's just to complete the picture. :)

Gallo Pinto and Brazilian Braised Kale


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- This recipe is modified from VegWeb, but I used a very similar one in Viva Vegan cookbook. (Pictured next to Brazilian Braised Kale from Viva Vegan.)

1 medium onion
3 cloves garlic
1 red pepper
1 T. olive oil for sautéing
1 can black beans (Note: I used 1 cup dried black beans, soaked for 8 hours and cooked for 1 1/4 hours. Black cooking water should be reserved to color the rice)
1 teaspoon ground cumin
2-3 tablespoon Salsa Lizano or vegan Worcestershire sauce
3 cup cooked brown rice
Cilantro for garnish
Salt and pepper, to taste

Directions:

Finely dice the garlic; add to large pan and sauté in olive oil. While the garlic is cooking, mince the onion and dice the red pepper. Once the garlic has become fragrant, add the garlic and pepper and cook 6-7 minutes until onion becomes translucent. While the mixture cooks, drain the black beans (if using canned beans), reserving some of the liquid. Once the onion turns golden and the pepper softens, add the remaining ingredients, including 1/2-1 cup of the black bean reserve liquid. Cook until warm and serve. Season with salt, pepper, and cilantro.

Gallo Pinto and Plantains

Fried Plantains

1-2 T. grapeseed or vegetable oil
2 T. coconut oil
1 ripe (black) plantain

Directions:

Remove skin from plantain and slice diagonally, approximately 1/4 inch thick. Heat oil to 350 degrees in a pan. When oil has reached temperature, slide plantains into oil gently. Do not over-crowd the pan. Fry for approximately 5-8 minutes, flipping once after first side turns golden. When both sides are golden, transfer to a paper towel or cooling rack to drain. Sprinkle with salt or sugar if desired. Plantains should be crispy on the outside and creamy on the inside.

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